- resumed the crazy~busy school routine. (I can't tell you how much I would pay to have some magic way to make our school mornings stress free!)
- Austin started his basketball season. So far, just practices, but games start next week.
- Audrey started gymnastics at the Y (a Christmas gift from Grandma Mossy).
- dr's appointments, hair appointments, lots of running around in general.
- (A HUGE praise btw, my biopsy results showed some inflammation, so I'm good to go. Probably the best possible outcome in this situation... for now.)
- Jackabama's GAP is going~out~of~business. We've been there twice this week to get in on the deals. I used to shop there all the time and Austin was (if I do sat so myself;) the best dressed baby and toddler around=) But lately, the budget says Target clearance, not GAP and I've missed shopping there. It was fun to go thru the racks and stock up on some much needed school clothes for the kids.
- Audrey enjoyed a special afternoon with mommy as a hard earned reward for good behavior. Her diva attitude has become quite the "issue" lately so we made a chart for her to collect stamps. Every time I "caught" her being good, she would get a stamp. When her chart was full, she could have an afternoon of one~on~one time with me. We enjoyed lunch at On The Ave in downtown, and then went shopping. It was so much fun and I hope we can do it again soon!
- Tom's birthday is less than 2 weeks away and I'm trying to put something together to celebrate him turning the big 3~0! (I can write this here because he doesn't keep tabs on me;)
- Looking forward to coffee dates, sleepovers, and some one~on~one time with Lexi this weekend
1.13.2010
Catching A Breath
12.31.2009
2009... See Ya!!!
3. Did anyone close to you give birth? Leslie had li'l miss Ruby.
4. Did anyone close to you die? nope.
5. What states/countries did you visit? Ohio, woo hoo! I went to Cedar Point with my sisters. Other than that, I think I
6. What would you like to have in 2010 that you lacked in 2009? less stress and worry over financial matters. I've said it before but this time I think it's really true... Lord willing, the credit card and one (of the many) school loans will be paid off this year!
7. What dates from 2009 will remain etched upon your memory, and why? Tom getting the keys to his "new" business. We checked out the facilities one Friday nite, made "decorating" plans and then went to celebrate this big new step with dinner at the Beach Bar. The kids' first day of school. A significant conversation with my dad.
9. What was your biggest failure? My relationship with Tom. But sometimes you need to fail to realize that you really do want to succeed. And admitting the fact that I failed could actually be my biggest success, right?
10. Did you suffer illness or injury? Austin's asthma was almost totally under control, just a few minor flare~ups. I'm still waiting for results from a cervical biopsy.
11. What was the best thing you bought? My children's education. Every time I walk into their school I am so reaffirmed in our choice to send them there. I love everything about it and it's totally worth the financial sacrifices, crazy work hours, and hectic coaching schedules to make it work.
12. Whose behavior merited celebration? Tom's for stepping up and accepting a wonderful business opportunity. Austin's for learning to ride his bike without training wheels (even after a mailbox jumped out and tackled him to the ground, he got back up to ride again). Audrey's for being independent and walking into preschool like she owned the place; and Lexi's for mastering writing the letters "H" and "A"! And let's not forget Bubba and Lindsey for gradgitating and landing "grown~up" jobs=)
13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed? Everyone makes mistakes, right?
14. Where did most of your money go? (This probably won't change for a long time) the house and the kids .
15. What did you get really, really, really excited about? my kids' accomplishments, Tom's successes, my days off from work, the times Tom would take the kids out of town and give me "mommy~free" weekends. (even when the kids look completely "motherless" in the vacation pictures;) Don't look too close, but when Lexi dressed herself, she got her legs mixed up in her panties and wore her leg thru the waistband, Tom knew and didn't change it for her. C'mon, Daddy, help a girl out!
16. What song will always remind you of 2009? Darius Rucker "It Won't Be Like This For Long" reminds me to enjoy every bit of my time with the kids.
17. Compared to this time last year, are you: a) happier or sadder? I'm pretty happy and content b) thinner or fatter? Let's not ask that question right after Christmas... let's say the same, give or take a few pounds=) c) richer or poorer? richer in the long run but only because we've paid off some debt. But financially, things are pretty tight right now. I don't know how many times God will have to teach me to completely trust in Him for our provisions, but He has never failed us once; He is always faithful!
18. What do you wish you’d done more of? Getting up early to enjoy the quiet of the morning and being ready to start my day before the kids are up.
19. What do you wish you’d done less of? Worrying. Obsessing about all of the "what~ifs" in life.
20. How did you spend Christmas? With our families. Hosmer family Christmas Eve morning. Hrebec family Christmas Eve. Just our family Christmas morning. With my mom later in the afternoon and with my Grandma Collins in the hospital that evening. Then Christmas nite with Tom's family.
21. Did you fall in love in 2009? Every day more deeply with my kids.
22. What was your favorite TV program? Little People, Big World: John and Kate plus 8 (before John went psycho); Bill and Gulianna; Diners, Drive Ins, and Dives.
23. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year? nope, hate makes your heart heavy and your life miserable.
24. What was the best book you read? Twilight saga. (I normally don't get into this "type" of book, but I *loved* these.) Thanks to my track girls for getting my hooked with the movie and my SIL Rona for lending me all the books.
26. What did you want and get? my new tattoo... finally! And Tom got his, too, so it turned into a "date nite" ;) Reconciliation, it's a wonderful, peaceful thing to experience. Oh, and a new Canon=)
27. What did you want and not get? The opportunity to stay at home FULL time with my kids.
30. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying? a less chaotic lifestyle. Is there really such a thing as a "typical/normal" life?
31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2009? Clearance racks at Kohls and Target and one rockin' pair of semi~stilettos=)
32. What kept you sane? Blogging~ it can be so therapeutic. Play dates, and girls' nites out.
33. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most? eh, no one really.
34. What political issue stirred you the most? I don't "do" politics.
38. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year. "My best friend gave me the best advice, he said each day's a gift and not a given right... that first step you take is the longest stride... if today was your last day, tomorrow was too late... would you live each moment like your last... if today was your last day..." Nickleback
12.28.2009
Rockin' Around The Christmas Tree
Well, better late than never, right? And considering that the kids have been gone all weekend, if I don't blog now in all of my free time, then there's really no excuse. (And for the record, it was Audrey that put the star up this year, so it will be Lexi's turn next year {because there's always a debate;})
12.25.2009
12.17.2009
The 12 Days of Christmas... Austin's Version
12.15.2009
'Tis The Season...
... to be stressed! I love, love, LOVE the Christmas season, so despite the busyness, I really still try to enjoy constant, never ending list of things to do. But this week I think I've taken on a little more than what's humanly possible:
- Christmas cards in the mail
- phone calls to Snapfish and Current to check on order statuses... because they're just not coming!
- coffee dates with Rona and Cheri (mmm, love me some coffee and girl time!=)
- a Christmas cookie exchange for the elementary teachers. As room mom, it was my job to recruit 9 or 10 moms to each bake a dozen cookies on behalf of the preschool class. I sent out a note last week and got 1 response. Somehow it is easier for me to bake to rest of the cookies myself than to take the time to call 16 moms and
beg/pleadask for cookies. - not only baking, but packing said cookies with all of the other room moms Wednesday afternoon
- last 2 jr. high b~ball games of the season
- all of the end~of~season responsibilities: paperwork, collecting/returning uniforms, etc., etc.
- cheerleaders' pizza party/ gift exchange at my home Wednesday before the game
- Audrey's Christmas party Thursday am
- the kids' Christmas open house at the school Thursday pm
- Austin's Christmas party Friday am
- a playdate with Austin's bestest school friend all Friday afternoon
- Micah and Lindsey's graduations from WMU on Saturday morning
- I asked for Saturday am off to go to the graduation ceremonies and somehow ended up with the whole day off! So while the kids are with grandma H. Tom and I will hopefully get the chance to finish up our Christmas shopping.
10 days to go! Santa is smart... he has elves! (Where can I get me one of those?)
12.10.2009
Today's Big Questions
- why do I keep finding pieces of stale, crusty eggo waffles in Austin's room when we haven't had eggos in months?
- where are they coming from?
- can I really send my daughter to school in too~small/short snow pants and fashion boots when there's 2 inches of snow on the ground?
- does this warrant an explanatory note to the teacher?... Dear Mrs. W, Please don't judge my mothering skills. It's really not for lack of fashion and/or common sense but simply that my daughter chose to have a meltdown as I was trying to get her around to take her to Target. Instead of going shopping for new winter attire, she ended up in her room for an extended time out and I ended up on the couch
with some Bailey's in my coffeefor a little peace and quiet. (I nixed the idea of letter writing in favor of spending the time digging thru my Christmas stash to find the snow boots I had picked up for her in May at the clearance price of $9.) - Why do I live in Michigan when I am cold intolerant?
- Why can't Santa be for grown~ups? I'm pretty sure I've been good this year, unless you're asking that question to my daughter from her place in time out, and I have a pretty good wish list.
- why do kids always pick out the marshmallows from Lucky Charms?
- why does my dog like cheese so much?
- where does the morning go? Time to go pick up Audrey!
12.09.2009
Today I'm Lovin'...
- sisters that play well together
- peppermint chai latte
- Williams~Sonoma "My Favorite Things" cd from their dinner companion series
- a sparkly Christmas tree
- fun surprises in the mail
- an equally poor brother who has mutually agreed to fore~go exchanging Christmas presents this year;)
- God's protection for my family
- a dog who has figured out how to crack open nuts with his teeth, eating the meat, and leaving the shells behind
- free babysitting (kids' Christmas program practice) for a quick coffee date tonite
12.02.2009
Christmas Details~ Now You're In The Know
11.26.2009
Sometimes It's The Simple Things
- a little man who stills wants me to snuggle him (because I know this won't last forever)
- my sweet little Audge who can be the best little mommy's helper
- my baby girl who woke up this morning and said she dreamed about "toots" last nite (always the silly entertainer)
- a husband who gets up and goes to work everyday, long before I open my sleepy eyes
- a dog who wakes up to excitedly greet me even at 4 in the morning
- a cup (or 2) of coffee in the morning
- warm flannel sheets
- reading the newspaper
- a new recipe
- clean laundry
I could probably sit here and add to my list for hours. Life is hard. Life is messy. Life is far from perfect. But even now, in all the struggles, God is good and there is so much to be thankful for. Sometimes it's the simple things.

